Posts Tagged ‘unnecessary spending’

Marriage…When Your Spending Plans Don’t Agree

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

The expression is opposites attract, and this is very much the case when it comes to spending plans in a marriage.  If you are a careful spender than being married to someone who is a spender can be trying and challenging especially in difficult economic times.  Whether your spouse is a person who spends to get a good feeling from it, or they overspend due to carelessness, the results are still the same, leaving you with too much debt and little savings to pay it down with.

If you attempt to solve this problem using the lecture method, then you may just drive your spouse to spend more, thus resulting in more problems.

A more effective strategy to combat this problem is to keep track of household expenses.  Accountability for household expenses may be just enough to show your spouse the areas that need work, without really saying anything.

If this doesn’t work? Then the time has come to get separate bank accounts.  And if your spouse’s spending is causing extreme stress on your household finances, then you may have to consider stronger measures.

Finally, you might consider lightening up a little. Marriage is one of life’s great blessings. If you think the occasional iToy is expensive, wait until you see how much a divorce costs.

Feeling The Crunch??

Wednesday, July 23rd, 2008

If you are like most people you are probably starting to feel like the walls are closing in on you.  For so many people, who in the past have been making just enough money to keep their heads above water, the tide has shifted and the heads are not having any room to come up for air.  Well, everyone is feeling the pinch, some more than others, but instead of complaining about the issues, make a pact with yourself to take the necessary steps to give yourself some breathing room.

1. Watch your unnecessary spending.   So many of us spend without really thinking about it.  We are functioning on automatic pilot when we are out there in the world.  Sometimes just cutting out that extra cup of coffee and donut on your way to work in the morning can be enough to ease a little bit of the pressure.  Did you realize that if you buy one cup of coffee a day for a week that is the same amount of money that it would cost you to buy a coffee maker? Even with the price of coffee these days, you still save an enormous amount just by brewing your own.  Not only that but invest in a plastic travel mug and clean it out.  You will not only save on $$$ but also be helping out the environment.

2. You can do your own car repairs.  Did you know that many of the instructions for performing an oil change or changing out filters can be found right online? You can even find a diagram of your car’s engine, so that you will easily be able to locate filters in the car more easily. This will take a little extra time, but it is a wise investment that will not only save you money, but will also take up some time in which you might otherwise be spending money.

3. Cut out your home phone bill.  Did you realize that in addition to just functioning on cell phones, that you can also get cheap home phone service through your high speed internet connection? Not only that but you can reduce your bill from about $70.00 per month to about $20.00.  These online phone services don’t charge you for long distance fees, and you can sign up right online and choose your own phone number.  It is worth your time to look into this option.

4. If at all possible ride a bike to work or carpool.  This will save you on fuel expenses and let you use the fuel you are buying for recreational purposes.  Again another money saving tip that will also help the environment while also reducing the wear and tear on your car, which provides truly a double savings.

5. Save as much money as you can and put it aside.  Hanging on to your money is definitely the way to go.  Now more than ever, saving is important and needs to be looked at.  When the economy goes through a rough spot companies will be cutting back, so unless you are in the food or fuel industry, your job could become an extra expenditure that your company doesn’t need.  Being prepared by having a little nest egg tucked away just in case is definitely the way to go.

There are many things that we can do to help ourselves feel a little less out of control.  We may not be able to control the economy, but we can control how we spend our money.  We must use this ability to create a more powerful perspective on the situation.